Embracing the challenges of traveling with an infant…
Does Murphy’s Law applies to you as much as it applies to me? Then you know that whatever can go wrong usually will. What that means in terms of traveling with an infant or toddler is, in spite of your careful planning and preparation, you’ll probably be presented with a mess to clean up and/or a meltdown to cope with. If you’re lucky, these “presentations” will happen in front of the smallest audience possible.
What Can Go Wrong, Will
FACT: At 11-months-old, my daughter had never had a wet diaper leak until five minutes before boarding our very first flight with her.
FACT: My daughter had never thrown up from eating too much until she gorged herself on peas from the hotel buffet. In both cases, I was prepared for the cleanup. But in the case of the latter, I was absolutely stunned by the reaction of those around us. Stunned in a good way. I actually don’t know what our fellow diners thought of our baby’s Exorcist impersonation, as we were surrounded in seconds. While I cleaned up my daughter, all evidence of the pea frenzy miraculously disappeared.
In fact, it was the genuine concern and kindness shown by the wait staff at our resort in Cuba that was the clincher in making me fall in love with the culture and country. But that’s another story…
Flights from Hell
Dirty diapers, vomit, ear-splitting screams… This is the trifecta of unpleasantness that we parents must deal with from time to time. And usually (hopefully?) in the comfort of our own homes. But not for Michael B. of Nashville. His son Andrew unleashed all three on a flight from Hell to San Diego.
Unfortunately, Michael and Andrew weren’t met with an army of cloths and soothing Spanish reassurances. They were subjected to eye rolls, loud sighs and, of course, the unsolicited (and possibly counter-productive) advice of drugging his kid with Benadryl.
Susie S. was headed home to Atlanta from Boston with her two boys. She couldn’t fit into the washroom to change her youngest son. According to Susie, the diaper was “legendary.” Having to change him out in the open created a reaction of nose-holding and gagging amongst her fellow passengers. She said they were all mad at her. They should have been mad at the aircraft manufacturer for designing such an inaccessible washroom on the plane.
Don’t read the comments!
You’ll see horrifically nasty comments online on breastfeeding in public or circumcision content, and also flying with an infant. Even the New York Times’ Frugal Traveler Matt Gross’s column was bombarded with anti-breeder/entitled-parent rhetoric that tries to pass itself off as what the majority of the traveling public is thinking. He wrote about flying to Italy with his infant daughter Sasha. But I believe these grouches are the minority. Some people are actually helpful – and friendly!
Nice Stories About Traveling with an Infant:
The day before Thanksgiving a few years back (notoriously the busiest travel day of the year) fellow passengers created a circle around Beth from Santa Monica’s toddler son Chris to prevent him from taking off at the gate. It had been a travel day from Hell that involved four layovers due to cancellations…
Flight attendants came to the rescue with blankets and wet paper towels to help Lisa C. tidy up after her 1-year-old daughter threw up everywhere en route home to Honolulu…
Flight attendants also placated Joan H.’s toddler with cookies and juice after a meltdown while boarding a flight. Joan was close to suffering a meltdown herself as she was 6-months pregnant flying with her 3-year-old daughter and 2-year-old son. She was heading home to Colorado after her grandfather’s funeral…
You can’t always count on kindness when you’re traveling with an infant. However, I’m pleased that the tales of helpful people aren’t as few or far between as you might be led to believe.
My original intention for this bit was to be funny and light-hearted. A look at the embarrassing things that kids do and we clean up as parents, and how not to let that deter you from traveling with an infant. I’m kind of glad I just couldn’t get it out that way.
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See Also:
- Infant Travel: Planning Your First Trip with Baby
- Tips for Flying with a Baby or Toddler at Every Age & Stage
- Travel with a Baby? It Gets Easier
- Travel with a Baby? It Gets Harder
- Road Trip Survival Tips
- Toddler on a Plane: Scarier than Snakes
- Top Toddler Travel Tips
I definitely agree with you – I’ve never had anyone be anything but really nice to me when I fly with my kids (my oldest’s first flight was at six months). I do endorse buying a seat for your baby if you can afford it though. My kids have always slept on planes when they can be in their car seats (and I feel like they are safer too).
Great post! I live in Cambodia and travel back to the US often…alone…with two children…under the age of three. All my friends and family think I’m crazy to do these 30+ hour flights alone and I don’t disagree, but what they don’t realize is the kindness of strangers. My kids have sat on many a lap other than mine on planes and someone always offers to help with hand holding, bag carrying or child minding if I need it. While I have had people give me dirty looks, most looks I get are a mix of sympathy and amazement…and then they ask if they can help:)On the lighter side, when we were having some separation anxiety issues, I have fit in the lavatory with a six-month-old and a two-year-old and managed to pee, when you gotta go, you gotta go!
now that i’ve been travling with my son for over 5 years. whatever they normally don’t do, they will start doing in the most inconvenient moments. i have sooooo realized that. my son never ever vomits, we went to one store and he played like a little manaic and vomited everywhere like in 10 different places. it was crazy. he hasn’t vomited before or since that moment:)
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Mara & Andrea – I totally hear you. I head out prepared for the worst so am surprised and delighted when people are kind.
Marina – I laughed out loud reading your comment – so true!
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Ugh that 11-month-old diaper leak five minutes before boarding? I’ve totally been there—still cringe thinking about my first flight with my little one.
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The pre-boarding 11-month-old diaper leak is such a relatable nightmare—my daughter had the exact same thing before our cross-country flight last year.
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Ugh I totally relate—my 10-month-old had her first leaky diaper right before boarding a flight last month!
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That pre-boarding diaper leak story hits way too close to home—my 10-month-old pulled the exact same trick on our first flight, do you have any quick hacks f…
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That 11-month-old’s first ever diaper leak right before boarding a flight is so relatable—my son had the exact same mess last spring.
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That 11-month-old’s first pre-boarding diaper leak story is so relatable—my toddler had the exact same thing happen before a trip.
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Oh my gosh, that pre-flight diaper leak with your 11-month-old? I had the exact same thing happen on a road trip last month!
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That 11-month-old’s pre-boarding diaper leak story is so relatable—my daughter had the exact same mess on her first flight too.
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That bit about your 11-month-old gorging on hotel buffet peas and throwing up is so relatable—we had a similar mess on our last flight.
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That 11-month-old’s first leak right before boarding a flight is so relatable—my niece had the exact same mess happen last summer.
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That pre-boarding diaper leak at 11 months is so relatable—my toddler did the exact same on my last flight. Has yours ever pulled that messy trick again?
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That 11-month-old diaper leak five minutes before boarding is exactly what happened on our first family flight—so relatable!
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That 11-month-old pre-boarding diaper leak story is so relatable—my first flight with my kid had the exact same mess at the gate.
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That 11-month-old’s pre-boarding diaper leak is so relatable—my son had the exact same mess on our first family flight!
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Ugh, that 11-month-old’s first diaper leak right before boarding sounds so familiar—we had that exact mess on our first flight last month.
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That 11-month-old’s pre-boarding diaper leak story is so relatable—our first flight with our baby had the exact same surprise mess.
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That 11-month-old’s pre-boarding diaper leak is exactly the Murphy’s Law moment I lived through last month—total chaos right before boarding!
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Ugh, I relate hard—my 11-month-old had her first pre-flight diaper leak too, no heads up at all! How do you even plan for that?
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That story about your 11-month-old’s first wet diaper leak hitting right before boarding is so relatable—my little guy did that on our first flight too! Any…
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That pre-boarding diaper leak is so relatable—my daughter had one right before a flight last year, total last-minute chaos!
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That 11-month-old leaky diaper right before boarding is so relatable—I had the exact same mess on a family road trip last month!
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That 11-month-old leaky diaper five minutes before boarding is so relatable—my son pulled that same stunt on our first family trip too.
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I totally get that 11-month-old pre-boarding diaper leak chaos! My son had his first blowout on a trip too—did you make it through boarding okay?
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That 11-month-old leaky diaper five minutes before boarding your first flight? I had the exact same thing happen to us—total chaos!
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That 11-month-old’s first diaper leak right before boarding is so relatable! My son had the exact same thing on his first flight—did you make it through okay?
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That 11-month-old leaky diaper five minutes before boarding your first flight is so relatable—my girl had the exact same mess last year!
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That 11-month-old’s first leaky diaper right before boarding a flight is so relatable—my niece did the exact same on our weekend trip!
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This is such a refreshing reminder that traveling with a baby is less about preventing every mishap and more about staying flexible when Murphy’s Law arrives. The kindness of strangers can completely change an exhausting experience. For the planning side, an AI travel-planning aid could also help parents organize essentials without expecting the trip to go perfectly.
For every parent who’s weathered a mid-flight blowout or a restaurant meltdown, this piece is a refreshing reminder that the chaos is universal—and often met with unexpected kindness. Corinne’s stories highlight the resilience and humor needed when traveling with little ones, and that’s a mindset we can all appreciate.
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